Kenneth Play, a self-described “sex hacker” who gets paid to watch couples have sex today in straight man dream jobs. He demos the best fingering and G-spot stimulation techniques with porn star Riley Reyes in his PornHub channel, KennethPlay. He has all muscle and no fat equivalent to the body of a superhero. He co-founded a community that throws some of the best sex parties in the United States, and he’s bedded over 400 women and still counting, also he’s a renowned expert on squirting. He makes the world—especially the bedroom—a better place for everyone.
He finds simple, replicable tricks that boost sexual confidence, increase intimacy between partners, and add more pleasure to sex, he calls himself a sex hacker. Stroke a clitoris as you might your own cock, (Which is to say, not with intent to kill?) a hack for how to have better sex Kenneth began his career in the personal fitness world, and. His advice verges on clinical, but it's really good advice. He got his start after his first sex party in Chicago, Kenneth didn't become a sex hacker by watching porn. Hoping to learn the best sex practices, he'd gone with woman he met on Match.com. He attended a lot of parties, where he had a lot of sex and watched other people have a lot of sex.
Kenneth had a long road ahead of him on his search for answers like Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz. People who seemed to be doing it best, he started talking with them trying to learn from them. Over time, Kenneth met people with lifelong active sex lives including tantric massage gurus, shibari artists, BDSM dungeon masters, and swingers. He incorporated their best tips and tricks on how to have better sex into his own sexual encounters, and it didn’t take long for others in his community to take note. At an exclusive sex party in 2014, he was asked to talk about his “curated sex tips”, and he’s been teaching here ever since. He knows his way around a mattress and he has the expertise.The man knows Sex Hack I: Increase Your Cliteracy
Some men approach a vagina like swinging in the dark, hoping to strike some unknown treasure the way they might approach a piñata. Look at a drawing. To understand the interior structure that you can’t see, you need to develop a 3-D map. That’s the fitness stuff: proprioception and kinesthetic awareness.” That sounds daunting, sure, but Kenneth says that if you can locate a G-spot and the clitoris, you’re already 80 percent there.
If you can locate a G-spot and the clitoris, you’re already 80% there.
It is like learning to play tennis as I tell my students that learning to how to have good sex. It’s a terrible game if both people don’t know how to play. I want to turn my Play Labs into digital products because of this [Kenneth’s in-person sex education events]. My goal is to make sex ed as accessible as porn.”
A professor of human sexuality at NYU, Kenneth's business partner is Dr. Zhana Vrangalova. Their approach to sex is twofold. Kenneth brings in the techniques and Zhana brings in the science. Take squirting: Dr. Zhana can explain exactly what is happening in the body and the brain when a woman squirts, and Kenneth can offer technical tips to help get a woman to that state. It needs to be focused on the individual, they both stress that for any sex to be truly great. You decide what feels good for you. Tell your partner what you like and ask your partner what they like.
Sex Hack II: Your Sword Your Skills Are Mightier Than
“My name is Kenneth Play and I have an average-sized penis this is how Kenneth begins every speaking event. Kenneth isn’t good at sex because he won the genetic lottery. He’s worked hard at it and gained mastery over sex and hence he’s good at sex. And that's the ultimate takeaway: More than it’s about penetration, good sex is about arousal and pleasure. If, for example, you’re trying to fuck people who aren’t attracted to you… don’t. Compatible partners and practice are the keys to good sex.
Between her breasts and thinking, Wow, I remember putting my face. To get a start you have to just ask, I didn’t know this open secret till then.
Dispelling insecurity is one of Kenneth’s major goals. After immigrating from Hong Kong he felt sexually invisible growing up in New York, Kenneth is really, really attractive. When it comes to penis size or just not being attractive, Asian male sexuality is the butt of the joke. Indeed, insensitive comments about Asian male sexuality are rampant in the U.S. (ahem, Steve Harvey). Kenneth felt like he couldn’t measure up. He got really good at sex, in the process he got ripped, he got laid—a lot. He finally made him comfortable with himself not due to the perfect body or perfect clitoral massage skills (“gently pinching her clit, you can kind of jerk her off”, he begins early in one of his videos) that. It was learning to focus on what he could change and understanding what he couldn’t change. A sexy serenity prayer.
Sex Hack III: Don't Cockblock Yourself
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Kenneth learnt the important lesson of not to be cockblocking yourself, both physically and psychologically during his first trip to a mildly successful sex party. “I decided to take Adderall that day, and I didn’t know that it makes your penis not work. It was my one opportunity to have a threesome, and I was thinking, What’s wrong with my cock? This could have been the most embarrassing sexual experience of my life as I was so embarrassed. But I have this high resiliency. I thought, If that’s the worst, I can handle it and it can only get better. At the end of the night, after the failed threesome, I saw a woman with these great curves; she was beautiful. I was kind of shy, but I asked, ‘Can I put my face in your boobs?’ and she said ‘Oh, come here’ and she just pulled my face toward her. Wow, I didn’t know all you had to do was ask for sex as I remember putting my face between her breasts and thinking.